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Toys aren’t just for kids anymore. And with the vast array of sex toys that are being made and created for adults, there’s no reason for you to not find something that pleases you—in so very many ways.

Talking about sex

The trick with talking about sex and things that you’d like to do in order to improve your sex life is to not bring it up right after or right before you’re actually doing the ‘deed.’

You want to find a time that’s outside of the bedroom and unrushed. Talk in a secluded corner of a restaurant or in your kitchen. Stay out of the bedroom for the moment. You don’t want to cause any undue pressure and scare him or her away.

Be honest and open about what you’ve been thinking about. Are you thinking about trying some new toys in general or do you want to share some finds with your partner? Talk about the benefits that you’ve discovered, and see what their feelings are as well. They may be perfectly open to trying something new.

But if they aren’t, then you may want to avoid putting any pressure on them. See if you can discuss it further down the road, and let them initiate anything further.

When they’ve said yes

When your partner has agreed to try some things out, don’t jump up and down (wait until they’re gone for that), but start the conversation about things that sound like fun.

Many times, going onto an Internet site together is the best way to look without pressure or embarrassment. Not that there’s any reason for you to be embarrassed, but someone who is new can feel very vulnerable and timid. The anonymity of online can be very helpful. There are also user reviews many times as well as pictures.

There are many websites on the web to get you started on the road to pleasure. Look for the REAL user reviews as well as the great pictures. You’ll be sure to see something that you like, or something you’d like to try out. With the clear menus and thousands upon thousands of options, you’re sure to be caught looking for hours.

Online shopping gives you anonymity and discreetness. And without a salesperson or clerk looking over your shoulder, you can take your time and really pick out what you want. There’s no one trying to force you into buying something because they need a commission.

Starting off

One of the first forays into sex toys is usually a vibrator or dildo for a woman. Many women can not climax with just penetration or they need something to fill up the lonely days. Vibrators are terrific because not only can they stimulate vaginally, but they can also be used on the clitoris as well.

And although it seems like there aren’t as many toys for men, you just have to look a little harder. Why not try out a penis pump or a penis ring? Both of these can create an overwhelming sensation in the sensitive penis tip. Rings in general work by creating a sense of sensory deprivation, so that the man can ‘last longer’ until the opportune moment.

These can be especially difficult to purchase in person, especially if you’re a newbie. Try an online site to scope out the choices before settling on one penis toy or another.

A little more advanced

If you’re tried the vibrators and the penis toys, then you’re ready to venture into other areas. Anal play is something that many couples would like to try, but they’re not quite sure how to begin.

Anal beads can be a great way to give an added sense of stimulation during any other sexual acts. Of course, dildos and vibrators can also be used for this purpose, but these can be overly large and difficult for the beginner. Start off small and use a lot of lubricant to help with the beginning stages.

Tying it all up

And of course, there are always the non-mechanical toys for couples. Bondage play is a popular way to heighten the orgasm experience. By restraining one of the members of the couple, the other can taunt for hours if they want to.

With bondage however, you will want to start simple and work your way to more advanced restraint applications.

You might like to try a blindfold ,arm guards, collar and leash play or some effective looking accessories to make you look AND feel the part!

When it comes to toys, your imagination is your best guide. Talk about your fantasies and see how you might be able to make them come true. And do a little online voyeurism, who knows where that will lead when you’re done shopping?

By: Iris Emery

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Taylor

The variety of sex toys is surprising. Sex toys vary from purely male or purely female sex toys to toys that can be used by both sexes. There are also some sex toys that can also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.

The Purpose Of Sex Toys

Some sex toys aid the man's erection, stimulate the female genitals to become more sensitive or provide a different feel to 'normal' sex. Other sex toys provide an 'environment' for variations in sex, for example so called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to help a person who has difficulty with unaided sex to achieve sexual satisfaction. However most sex toys provide a new way to directly stimulate the male or female genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction.

Using sex toys can provide new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. It can also provide a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.

The usual expectation is that a sex toy provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual intercourse or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation provided by the sex toy.

Types of Sex Toys

Vibrating Sex Toys

Probably the most well known sex toys are 'vibrators' which, as the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. They are mainly used to stimulate the clitoris, but may also be used to stimulate any other part of the female body or that of a man's.

The simplest of these are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker than a pencil). They often have an internal battery (or two) which powers a small electric motor. Sometimes the battery pack and controller are external and connected to the vibrator by a wire. This motor is fitted with a small, out of balance, weight attached to the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.

With a vibrator that has a controller, as the power is increased the speed of the motor increases and with it both the rate and strength of vibration. Both the strength and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you find the sex toy. The best effect may not be as strong and as fast as possible. The optimum settings may well change as your degree of excitement builds. To get the best results it is worth buying a vibrator which is controllable.

Different vibrators will have different characteristics and you may well find you prefer one combination much more than another and your preference may even vary depending on which part of your body you are stimulating.

More recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not only the static control of power/speed but also allow you to select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be very effective.

There are also other vibrating sex toys such as butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.

Other Powered Sex Toys

There are some sex toys that use other ways to provide mechanical stimulation. These usually depend on a motor that makes the sex toy continually change its shape which provides a sort of rotational movement or makes it move back and forth. The back and forth movements are sometimes powered by an air pump rather than a motor. The movements have been used to create, for example, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that 'penetrate' the vagina and mouth simulators to give a man a 'blow job'.

On a bigger scale and much more expensive, there are 'sex machines' that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.

Combination Sex Toys

So far we have covered vibrating, moving and thrusting sex toys. As you may have guessed these are all offered in a bewildering array of combinations.

A common combination in many 'Rabbit Style' vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.

Many sex toys add varying textures to their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator may have ridges or soft spikes or a rippled shape.

Sensation Change Sex Toys

Some sex toys rather than provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.

For instance there are a variety of sleeves to put over the penis to provide different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.

There are rings that squeeze the base of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man's erection and also changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which may give a man's partner greater sensations during penetration.

There are a wide variety of lubricants that can significantly change the feel of sex.

There are PVC and Polyurethane bed sheets that are water and oil proof that can be used for slippery or messy sex.

Why Use A Sex Toy?

A good question is: why do people use a sex toy? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.

Well, apart from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), sex toys can drive the imagination (being taken by a machine), provide variety (new ways to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) and some can provide experiences not possible with 'normal body parts' (particularly vibrating sex toys and electro-stimulation).

Where To Start

If you have not tried a sex toy before and don't yet have an idea of what you might like, try one of the simpler vibrators first. Most probably you will enjoy the experience and then start to wonder what other delights can be found with more sophisticated vibrators and other sex toys ...

If you then find you do enjoy sex toys try out a few others and find what suits you. Above all, have fun trying them out!

By: Abbie Acworth

About the Author:

Melany

Coming up with sex ideas for you and your partner should be a healthy and exciting part of your relationship. It should be fun and adventurous coming up with new ways to experience intimacy with one another. Here are some wonderful ideas to experience sexual intimacy to the fullest!

1. Sex toys!

This can range from simple erotic lotions or oils to actual intimacy massagers or ticklers. There are a variety of different toys you can discover that will add fun, variety, and experimentation to your intimacy. Sex toys can play an important role in throwing in that needed aspect of variety to your intimate relationship. Be open with one another and explore your sex toy options for fun and variety!

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3. Sex Guides, New positions, New techniques!

A surefire way to explore sexual intimacy with your partner is through a sex guide or sex manual which will provide dozens, if not hundreds of ideas to heat things up and add enormous and exciting variety to your sex life. This is an easy way you can practice new sex ideas immediately and repeatedly. Just refer to the guide whenever variety or new sex ideas are needed and you'll find interesting position ideas, plus techniques and tricks for an intimate, erotic experience!

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Helen

Sex stores are filled with dozens of delightful devices each designed to tease and taunt you with promises of ultimate orgasmic ecstasy. On your quest for quivering climaxes, you may already have amassed a secret stash of sex toy treasures. But, is the elusive pursuit of passion products a bounty of bliss or a foreplay farce? Unfortunately, the answer is yes and no and it depends.

If your relationship could use a little sexual adventure, why not take command of your erotic destiny? Go on a sex toy treasure hunt. Set out to experience new and exotic sensations as you creatively explore all your erogenous zones in intimate detail. On your journey of joy, both you and your first mate will need a playful sense of creative experimentation, an intimate imagination and a willingness to communicate. Be prepared for wet and wild encounters, long hard nights and intense physical exhilaration.

Of course, a list of available sexual treasures to guide and inspire you might come in handy. So, to help you map some pleasure spots and discover the true value of your sex toy treasures, a few secrets of desire are revealed below:

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By: Michael Kortekaas

About the Author:

Anderson

Toys are not only intended for kids. With the wide range of toys for adults, there's no reason for you not to find the right one for you and your partner. It can spice up and add fun to your boring sex life. Introducing a sex toy to your partner can be very hard. But there are lots of simple ways to introduce these sex toys and here's how:

• You can talk about it as a usual conversation. Do not bring up the issue just right before your sexual scene. You have to find the right place and time to discuss about this matter to your partner. Create a very casual mood before starting a conversation.

• When your partner says yes, don't rush on things, start a conversation that might sound fun, to be able to encourage her. Sometimes, making a research together on the internet or magazines is one of the best ways to bring it up without any embarrassment. Many people are just afraid of trying new experiments. They tend to be more timid about it. By reading and researching, it can be very helpful and encouraging sometimes.

• Look for encouraging testimonials and reviews over the internet. Engaging in an online shopping is a discrete way of buying sex toys. You can take your time and look for the one that will definitely suit your fantasy.

• Before starting off, you have to familiarize yourself about the do's and don'ts of using a sex toy. Consider many other options, there a lot of sex toys in the market for you to choose from. Look for some helpful tips especially for a newbie like you.

One of the best ways to start is by using a vibrator. It's not very difficult to purchase because it is the most common sex toy today. Be more than a little advanced when trying new sex toys. After trying a vibrator, you can try a more advanced toy for you and your partner. Anal play may be one of the things that couples would want to try but do not know how to begin. Just start with little things before jumping into a more complex one. Always use the right lubricant for beginners like yourself.

Try all possible options; there are many ways to add excitement into your sex life. Maybe the non mechanical way is just the right start for you. A bondage play is great for couples who want to heighten their orgasm. You can add a little thrill when you're in bed by using this bondage.

However, with the use bondage you can start simple work and move to a more advanced play. Using a blindfold, a collar, and an arm guard you can create a more wild and suspenseful action during your sexual intercourse. When it comes in choosing the right toy for you, your imagination can take you further than any other thing. Talk together about your fantasies and find ways on how to make them real.

By: Sam W. John

About the Author:

Ashlyn